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To draw on it to make connections instead of separations. We need to build bridges to each other, not burn them. Do I hope GenderPAC will spend its last dime working on issues of race, class, and sexual orientation this year? No, I don't. Not because these don't overlap in important ways with gender, but because others are already doing that work.
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Almost half of the trans- gender respondents who are harassed or discriminated against report that it's because of the perception that they're gay or lesbian. Maybe there's hope. Maybe a gender movement is a much more powerful, inclusive, and broad thing than we ever dared hope. If only we can keep the faith, and keep our ears, our eyes, and our minds open. Tapestry 17 Column: G nna E. Israel Curious Comments T his article was inspired by one of my clients who recently read Ontario marriage book, co-authored witi i Donald Tarver, M.
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In situations of this kind I have attempted to provide informal assistance and direc- tion. The following are my reasons: I do not practice in this area of the law. More importantly, different states and their courts have dif- ferent laws, regulations, guide- lines, and legal precedents re- garding divorce, child custody, and partner property rights, and I don't pretend to know them all.
Theseissuesarebesthandled by someone experienced in han- dling these matters in the juris- diction where the issue isbefore the court. A letter and a phone conversa- tion is, at best, a superficial dis- cussion.
Personal conflicts re- quire the totally undivided at- tention of legal counsel who is completely immersed in all the details of the controversy. Perhaps in the future IFGE or its various special funds will be able to pro- vide funding for the publication of scholarly legal research by independent members of the academic community which can then be used as expert author- ity.
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Generally speaking, I had a marvel- ous time. However, I was, and still am, deeply distressed by the behav- ior and appearance of some of the participants. Isn't there something we can do to legally prevent some of these " undesirables" from attend- ing our events? You've hit on a real sen- sitive issue, one that has bothered me and many others for a long time.
I have discussed this problem with a number of leaders in our commu- nity, includingsomewhoare respon- sible for planning and operating ma- jor events. I am not surprised that this is a growing concern.
To begin with, this is not really a "legal" issue. Event sponsors can refuse to register "undesirables" and can eject persons who act out in unac- ceptable ways. Many events have "dress" and "conduct" codes, and attempt to enforce them. Further- more, hotels and other public facili- ties can, within certain limitations and for good reason, eject or refuse to serve persons whose conduct or ap- pearance is unacceptable.
Defining "unacceptable" is not easy, however. We preach tolerance and under- standing forall transgendered people. And, we seek acceptance by society. This is, at best, a difficult and contro- versial task. The problem raised in this letter is a social and public rela- tions problem for the gender com- munity and for society in general. Perhaps this d iscussion belongs else- where in Tapestry.
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Phillips, but under totally different circumstances. The women she sees have most likely already made some accommodation to their partner's cross-dressing.
The women I see are still struggling with the issues and with their relationship. Phillips makes is that many of the husbands of my clients are not honest with their wivesand also have a lot of guilt and shame over their cross-dressing.
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If she ever asked other professionals, she would discover that serving the gender community is far from a money making proposition. Most Girs that I know could not earn a living if they had only clients with genderconcems. I find itsad thatsomany people in the gender community believe professionals are self-serving individuals whose wznna purpose is to make money from persons who struggle with gender issues.
Yes, there are uninformed professionals who do wabna harm than good, but that is also true for any other profession. Not everyone is completely altruistic nor are any omniscient. The majority of professionals who serve your community are there because they care, not because they want to take advantage of you.
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